Sex Talk Wednesday - Sex Dream

Welcome back to another Sex Talk Wednesday. Today's topic is sex dreams. More specifically sex dreams of certain people in your life.

The other night I had THE hottest sex dream that involved one of my fellow co-workers. Two very interesting things about this, though. 1. This guy is very sweet, but I have zero sexual attraction to him and would never consciously think of him this way at all. Honest. 2. In this dream he was tender and romantic. Granted, I wouldn't know how he is in bed, but at work, he does not seem the type to be tender and romantic, so that was a seemingly complete personality change.

Know that this was JUST a dream. Nothing would ever EVER come of it. (And ::ahem;: no one would ever cum from it.) But my dreams are very vivid and upon waking from this one, it almost felt like it really happened. And I must admit, that I see him in a different light now. Still not sexually attracted to him (and I am certainly the farthest from his type) but now as I look at him my mind occasionally drifts to certain parts of the dream where he is kissing me gently on the lips while his hands are lightly touching my baby soft skin from my face down my neck to each breast and then down my stomach. And his body is on top of mine, entering me slowly while gently blowing in my ear and then kissing my neck. And then his hands are stroking up each thigh as I wrap my legs around him so I can feel every inch of him inside me.

but I digress...

Unfortunately, I woke up from the dream before either of us finished. But it was hot enough that I woke up with soaked panties and a newfound curiosity of him. Wondering if maybe there would be a twinkle in his eye for me the next time we spoke. As if, perhaps, he had known that I had just dreamed of him in the most deliciously naughty way possible.

So that brings me to the question of - do guys want to know when a girl has had a sex dream about them? And is a factor, in knowing, a matter of if the guy is attracted to the girl or not? In other words, even though this guy is zero interested in me in that way, would he still want to know that in my mind, just hours before seeing him, our bodies were intertwined and we were whispering sweet nothings into each other's ears?

In my case, it won't matter because I have no intention of revealing who it was I had the dream of to anyone - including (and especially) him. Dream experts would probably say something like I dreamed of him in an intimate situation because I crave his acceptance and approval and that by letting go with him, I was showing him that I do not always have to be the guarded person when it comes to my feelings that I always am with him. I guess that could be the case. But our paths don't really cross all that often, so seeking his approval isn't exactly my main focus.

So it remains only a dream and as good as the dream was (I certainly wouldn't mind having a repeat of it), I have no desire to even attempt to try to make it a reality. Even if we were both attracted to each other (which, neither is attracted to the other - I am quite positive of this), as I have learned in the past, some dreams are much better off as dreams since some that come to life end up as disappointments.

Have you had sex dreams of a coworker? If so, did you tell that person? And was it awkward when you did? Was the reaction to the news received favorably? Do tell...

Vixy :]