Sex Talk Wednesday - To Swallow Or Not To Swallow?

Happy hump day everyone! Welcome to the first Wednesday Sex Talk post!

I must confess, I was trying to figure out for my first post, if I should get down and dirty right away or just start off slowly to get a feel for what everyone likes to talk about. Then I realized, it's my blog which means I'm in charge of the roller coaster and which buttons to push. So you're welcome to get off anytime you like.

A wise person once told me "write about what you know" so I figured I'd just jump right in and start talking about oral sex and see if anyone follows.

I might not be much to look at, but I give a great blow job. When the majority of the guys I've been with have said I'm in their top 5, with over half of them having said I'm the best, and being with more than just a few guys (the number isn't really important, is it?) I figure I must be doing something right, so I think that qualifies me as an expert in this area.

There's a joke that goes "What's the difference between 'like' and 'love'?" And the punchline is "'Spit' and 'swallow'." Ha. Ha. Ha. We've all heard it. But is that really how everyone feels?

So the sex talk topic for this week is which is really preferred...spitting or swallowing? And does it really make a difference to the guy?

I can really only speak from my experiences, but the majority of the guys I've sucked off, have preferred it when I swallow, so I tend to just do that automatically now with each new partner. So let's start the debate with the pros of swallowing vs. the pros of spitting (or, a less "vulgar" term "not swallowing") and feel free to add in your own - if there's anything that I forgot.

And just to be clear, this is strictly for blow job beginning to end purposes, only. Not blow job leading to any other kind of sex.

Pros of Swallowing:

* Easier clean-up. Since there's usually minimal mess, if any. And with that, there's no need to worry about trying to get that stain out of your clothes (or have to explain - possibly to a spouse or significant other, or maybe just a dry cleaner - what that spot is).

* Curiosity. That fantasy that all of us girls have about wondering what THIS guy tastes like vs. what THAT guy tastes like. (Because every guy tastes different...kinda like snowflakes...no two are alike.) I would love to know what every guy out there tastes like. Or, am I alone in this fantasy? (I know that Angelina Jolie was quoted saying she wants to taste everyone, but her list also included women....I'm just into men.) Now, that doesn't mean that I would jump every guy I encounter and force him to let me suck his cock just so I can bring him to a thundering climax to find out what he tastes like; but I will admit to at least imagining what it would be like with every guy I see.

* Waste not, want not. As I've been told from one of the guys I've been with, none of his little men are allowed to be "wasted". (Mouth, pussy, or ass are the only options for depositing his little fellas.) And I guess that kinda stuck with me thru the several lovers after him.

* The best one, though, for me? It's a great power trip. Sucking that last little droplet out of my Mr. O.'s throbbing love muscle quivering in my mouth while his legs turn to jelly is the ultimate high...because I know I'm the one who got him there and swallowing every last morsel of his love juice shows him that I not only respect him enough to properly finish what I start, but that I am willing to give him that connection that (apparently) not every girl will give him. Like it or not, there IS a connection formed when swallowing, that just cannot be accomplished if he pulls out of my mouth and lets it go wherever it ends up.

Pros for not swallowing:

* Taste. Hate to say this, but not every guy out there is as yummy as my Mr. O. There are many factors that contribute to the way a guy tastes, but unfortunately, I have not been able to do as many experiments with this as I would have liked, and relying on others' research...well, it's just not as fun as doing it, yourself. (That can be next Wednesday's topic.) So if I've swallowed a guy in the past and I about gagged on the way he tasted then, you can bet that I won't be anxious to swallow him again anytime soon. (Lucky for me, in all of my experiences, I've only encountered a couple of guys that fall into this category.)

* Beauty oriented. Cum is great for the skin and the hair. I learned this with some of my first experiences before knowing that swallowing was an option. (Hey, I learned about sex watching porn, and they NEVER swallow in those movies.) I don't like facials. I think they're about as degrading as it can get, but if he cums on my neck or my tits, and I rub it in nice and good....it makes my skin super soft. And the few times when it got in my hair, I got really pretty streaks of blonde. (Trying to explain to my mom how I got blonde streaks in my dark brunette locks when I had been forbidden to use Sun-In was a difficult task, though.)

* Swallowing with dragon breath. Cum doesn't taste good first thing in the morning. At least not for me. I'm in the mood to suck cock pretty much anytime of the day, especially for Mr. O., but the pre-brushing teeth blow jobs literally turn my stomach. I found a fix for that, though. Keeping toothpaste by the bedside and then as soon as he's "up", dab a little on my tongue for a quick refresher and then I'm good to go. If that isn't available though, and mints are nowhere to be found, then I don't care how much I love and respect you, it's not getting swallowed...

* Kissing afterwards. Some guys don't like to kiss a girl after she's swallowed his soldiers, so if kissing is going to be an option post-blow job, then spitting is the way to go for those guys. Because respect is always the name of the game. You do it the way HE wants it done. (At least that's what I was taught.)

* Too much? If you've already swallowed several of his loads in one night. The most I've had in one night was 4, and granted, with Mr. O., I could swallow another several - we were actually going for 5, but the poor dear was about ready to faint as it was - but some guys after that first one....especially if he hasn't whacked off in a long time before getting to me, and he has quite a bit to let out...it's very difficult to keep swallowing load after load.

* Seeing the parental units within the next several hours. I don't care how many mints are sucked on, how much gum is chewed, or how many times you brush your teeth, the smell of swallowed cum stays with you for several hours after the rendezvous.

So that's my opinion. As you can see, I have shown good points to both, and based on quantity of reasons, it does appear that not swallowing is the way to go, but MY main focus is (always has been and always will be) pleasing my man, so whichever he prefers is what I do...and since the majority have preferred that I swallow, that's what I tend to stick with.

For the girls out there - which do you find that your guy prefers and which do you prefer doing?

For the guys - which makes you happier, or does it even matter?

Don't be shy. Let me know your thoughts. (You can even post as anonymous if you want to.)

Vixy :]